happycycling, 28, N, straight, complicated relationship Wed Mar 10, 2010 9:51:52 pm on Untitled Post re: comment #12
are there problems besides the distance?
he still doesn't know whether he loves me, and doesn't seem to be convinced that we'll make good long-term partners.
the distance itself isn't an issue - i'd gladly move there to be with him, but i can't because of immigration laws. the only feasible way now for us to see each other more than once every several months is if we decide to get married.
erdos0, 34, M, straight, single Wed Mar 10, 2010 4:20:25 pm on Untitled Post re: comment #10
wait, do you mean "let this drag on" as in stay in england for the entire month, or as in not terminate the relationship after i get back?
if the former: no, as i have other people i know whom i can stay with. if the latter: i really should, but i don't know if i can.
I was asking about the latter, but I was also thinking about the other issue.
happycycling, 28, N, straight, complicated relationship Wed Mar 10, 2010 6:54:28 am on Untitled Post re: comment #3
So you might let this drag on if there is continued uncertainty?
wait, do you mean "let this drag on" as in stay in england for the entire month, or as in not terminate the relationship after i get back?
if the former: no, as i have other people i know whom i can stay with. if the latter: i really should, but i don't know if i can.
sweeneyjohn, -97990, M, straight, hermit Wed Mar 10, 2010 5:21:46 am on Road Trip ^^^But then you might become addicted to space and not feel right on Earth ever again.
firecove, 25, F, straight, hermit Wed Mar 10, 2010 4:50:19 am on Hmmm From what little you have said about jeremy, personally I would run kicking and screaming in the other direction....
happycycling, 28, N, straight, complicated relationship Wed Mar 10, 2010 4:14:04 am on Hooray Hypocrisy "I once was told that any guy who is willing to have something in his butt is at least bisexual, regardless of whether or not he admits it."
really? that's silly. i'm interested in pegging guys. does that mean i'm gay?
See just talking about it grosses me out. And I wouldn't want to use one of my own toys on his ass. That would bother me way too much. Also, if he's never done it before, wouldn't a dildo be too much?
No fair. I never got a chance to compete for the position of blog-stalk queen. When do we vote? Do I need to get a party nomination or can I nominate myself?
You have to steal the position by demonstrating that you make a better queen.
firecove, 25, F, straight, hermit Wed Mar 10, 2010 3:48:39 am on Road Trip If I hit the above mentioned states, it will bring my count up to 28. Getting closer to my goal!
the_grim_zipper, 25, M, straight, hermit Wed Mar 10, 2010 3:33:18 am on Blog-stalk Confessions: ? No fair. I never got a chance to compete for the position of blog-stalk queen. When do we vote? Do I need to get a party nomination or can I nominate myself?
nikki, 25, F, straight, single Wed Mar 10, 2010 3:30:09 am on Blog-stalk Confessions: ? re: comment #11 You, on the other hand, are supposed to agree with me. Queen of Blog-Stalk rules.
Upon further review, I agree with E. As the comment left on the error post addresses a different subject than the corrected entry, I believe it can be considered its own post.
Upon further review, I agree with E. As the comment left on the error post addresses a different subject than the corrected entry, I believe it can be considered its own post.
the_grim_zipper, 25, M, straight, hermit Wed Mar 10, 2010 3:22:14 am on Blog-stalk Confessions: ? Upon further review, I agree with E. As the comment left on the error post addresses a different subject than the corrected entry, I believe it can be considered its own post.
Depends on what one would consider the error post with no text. On the one hand, it could be its own entity.But it could also be valid to consider it 53 and 53a instead of 53 and 54.
firecove, 25, F, straight, hermit Wed Mar 10, 2010 3:11:20 am on Peanut Butter without Jelly Peanut butter and mayonnaise is a good substitute. Sounds worse than it tastes.
erdos0, 34, M, straight, single Wed Mar 10, 2010 1:13:52 am on Awkward Tip re: comment #13
That's ok dear, we all still love you here.
Except I don't like the fact that you can't be logged into blog-stalk from more than one computer at the same time. I'm far too lazy to have to type in my name and password every time I switch from my laptop to my desktop.
nikki, 25, F, straight, single Wed Mar 10, 2010 1:03:41 am on Awkward Tip re: comment #12
Yes, but I can't think clearly on Mondays.
That's ok dear, we all still love you here.
Except I don't like the fact that you can't be logged into blog-stalk from more than one computer at the same time. I'm far too lazy to have to type in my name and password every time I switch from my laptop to my desktop.
erdos0, 34, M, straight, single Wed Mar 10, 2010 12:56:56 am on Awkward Tip re: comment #7
I think protocol would have called for you just leaving at a normal pace and if he wouldn't have tipped you, you count the loss. Most of the time if I made house calls that tipped and they didn't, they'd all compensate for it the next week.
I don't go there every week. The next visit is whenever computer problems develop. That could potentially be several months from now.
firecove, 25, F, straight, hermit Tue Mar 9, 2010 10:53:04 pm on Awkward Tip agrees with: comment #7
I think protocol would have called for you just leaving at a normal pace and if he wouldn't have tipped you, you count the loss. Most of the time if I made house calls that tipped and they didn't, they'd all compensate for it the next week.
nikki, 25, F, straight, single Tue Mar 9, 2010 8:14:42 pm on Awkward Tip I think protocol would have called for you just leaving at a normal pace and if he wouldn't have tipped you, you count the loss. Most of the time if I made house calls that tipped and they didn't, they'd all compensate for it the next week.
carolynw85, 24, F, straight, single Tue Mar 9, 2010 12:29:22 pm on Hooray Hypocrisy I have found a little anal stimulation occasional makes a guy cum faster, but they are either totally okay with it or totally not. Also, Kinsey believed that the majority of the population is bisexual and a smaller portion, like a bell curve, is either strictly homosexual or strictly straight.
erdos0, 34, M, straight, single Tue Mar 9, 2010 1:48:47 am on Hooray Hypocrisy Why are you having sex with submissive guys? I thought you preferred the dominant ones.
He's said he's had two girls do it. The first time it was good and the second time it wasn't. But he wants to go further with it. Like, toys, or something. I don't know. I'm not experienced with this business.
They say that men have a spot that amplifies everything by like 10 in their anus and that by playing with it when giving head, etc. will make their experience that much more pleasurable. He has probably heard this as well and wants to see if it's true, and/or has already done it and has found out that it is true.
I heard of this but I do not have any interest in trying it. I already know plenty of kinky ways to experience intense pleasure.
See just talking about it grosses me out. And I wouldn't want to use one of my own toys on his ass. That would bother me way too much. Also, if he's never done it before, wouldn't a dildo be too much?
sweeneyjohn, -97990, M, straight, hermit Tue Mar 9, 2010 12:27:20 am on Hooray Hypocrisy Doesn't make him gay or "at least" bisexual; I think people who say that are probably a little homophobic. Enjoying a particular sensation is not at all the same as being attracted to men or liking penis in general, which are pretty much the most basic requirements for a guy to be gay.
Personally, I'm with you; the thought makes me squeamish. I have tried pleasing myself this way in the past, and I did not like it AT ALL.
As for dominant girls, it depends. I'm usually the dominant one, and I like it that way, but if a woman happens to be dominant, I can go with it. I could not, however, ever form a true romantic relationship with someone who ALWAYS needed to be the dominant one. I think I'd feel sexually powerless in that situation.
They say that men have a spot that amplifies everything by like 10 in their anus and that by playing with it when giving head, etc. will make their experience that much more pleasurable. He has probably heard this as well and wants to see if it's true, and/or has already done it and has found out that it is true.
He's said he's had two girls do it. The first time it was good and the second time it wasn't. But he wants to go further with it. Like, toys, or something. I don't know. I'm not experienced with this business.
They say that men have a spot that amplifies everything by like 10 in their anus and that by playing with it when giving head, etc. will make their experience that much more pleasurable. He has probably heard this as well and wants to see if it's true, and/or has already done it and has found out that it is true.
Also, beware when I ever say "they say" because that means I have no idea what I am talking about...I have read it somewhere. I believe in a cosmo in a waiting room or something.
firecove, 25, F, straight, hermit Mon Mar 8, 2010 4:09:42 pm on Hooray Hypocrisy They say that men have a spot that amplifies everything by like 10 in their anus and that by playing with it when giving head, etc. will make their experience that much more pleasurable. He has probably heard this as well and wants to see if it's true, and/or has already done it and has found out that it is true.
Use a dildo instead of your finger. That avoids the need to get fecal stains on your finger.
See just talking about it grosses me out. And I wouldn't want to use one of my own toys on his ass. That would bother me way too much. Also, if he's never done it before, wouldn't a dildo be too much?
firecove, 25, F, straight, hermit Mon Mar 8, 2010 3:47:52 pm on Hah re: comment #11
What dance DVD? I want to learn a choreographed dance and break it out randomly this year.
I am learning it's more aerobics than dance...you're supposed to just add sexy dance moves in there or something?
It's one of those 10 minute solutions: dance it off and tone it up. I usually do 2 of the sessions, one dance and one toning. Despite it only being 10 minutes, it's a pretty intense 10 minute workout.
erdos0, 34, M, straight, single Mon Mar 8, 2010 3:43:22 pm on Hooray Hypocrisy Use a dildo instead of your finger. That avoids the need to get fecal stains on your finger.
carolynw85, 24, F, straight, single Mon Mar 8, 2010 2:28:53 pm on Hah What dance DVD? I want to learn a choreographed dance and break it out randomly this year.
carolynw85, 24, F, straight, single Mon Mar 8, 2010 2:27:28 pm on Ugh I like the old charlie brown one, "My Sweet Baboo" though that violates your "my ____" rule I do love that one.
firecove, 25, F, straight, hermit Mon Mar 8, 2010 3:14:39 am on :-) re: comment #31
Okay. I'll *try*.
First, the banter between you two is classic. Seriously, read your conversations together, but detach from them, try to view them as an outsider. You guys are hilarious. We don't have conversations like this where I'm from.
Second, and I've watched you two since TheAngryJohnny, so I know better than what I'm about to say, so neither of you be offended please. This part only works if you detach and try to view the two of you as I'm about to describe, as an outsider might see you. You've got some creepy thirty-something guy hitting on this sweet and innocent younger woman. And they're both totally clueless about it so it goes back and forth, and it's pretty much the most comical courtship ever.
If I didn't know you were good friends, that's how it might seem. That's the best I can describe it.
Haha, I don't believe most people have conversations like this. :-p
And I can see how that can be comical. Very comical, in fact.
sweeneyjohn, -97990, M, straight, hermit Mon Mar 8, 2010 3:10:00 am on :-) re: comment #27
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I think you should try. I promise to keep trying to entertain you. :-)
Okay. I'll *try*.
First, the banter between you two is classic. Seriously, read your conversations together, but detach from them, try to view them as an outsider. You guys are hilarious. We don't have conversations like this where I'm from.
Second, and I've watched you two since TheAngryJohnny, so I know better than what I'm about to say, so neither of you be offended please. This part only works if you detach and try to view the two of you as I'm about to describe, as an outsider might see you. You've got some creepy thirty-something guy hitting on this sweet and innocent younger woman. And they're both totally clueless about it so it goes back and forth, and it's pretty much the most comical courtship ever.
If I didn't know you were good friends, that's how it might seem. That's the best I can describe it.
someonetookmooman, 28, ?, don't know, not sure Sun Mar 7, 2010 8:43:50 pm on Shit. if i were a blogger, i'd probably use that as an excuse to do things just so i have material.
someonetookmooman, 28, ?, don't know, not sure Sun Mar 7, 2010 8:42:29 pm on Ugh i used to call an ex "tits mcgee",
but only to break the awkward tension of intimate moments.
sweeneyjohn, -97990, M, straight, hermit Sun Mar 7, 2010 1:31:59 am on Ugh re: comment #36
I think my reason for disliking it is based on how people are addressed in my family. My siblings were addressed by name, and my parents and grandmother were addressed by title. I was the only one who had a nickname, which was based on variations of the Chinese word for "baby".
sweeneyjohn, -97990, M, straight, hermit Sun Mar 7, 2010 1:18:45 am on Ugh re: comment #34
aww, what was the nickname?
I won't say it in public anymore. Too many fools have thought it funny to use it against me, either just to irritate me or in hopes of actually angering me. Check your inbox in a second.
erdos0, 34, M, straight, single Sun Mar 7, 2010 1:08:52 am on Ugh re: comment #31
I am sure my distaste for nicknames stems from my infancy.
I think my reason for disliking it is based on how people are addressed in my family. My siblings were addressed by name, and my parents and grandmother were addressed by title. I was the only one who had a nickname, which was based on variations of the Chinese word for "baby".
sweeneyjohn, -97990, M, straight, hermit Sun Mar 7, 2010 12:47:24 am on :-) Watching fire and erdos comment back and forth is great entertainment. I hardly ever bother participating anymore cause, why ruin the moment? =)
firecove, 25, F, straight, hermit Sun Mar 7, 2010 12:47:01 am on Ugh re: comment #33
Kind of the opposite with me. An uncle came up with a nickname for me one day and never stopped using it. It never struck me as funny or witty; just cruelly humiliating.
sweeneyjohn, -97990, M, straight, hermit Sun Mar 7, 2010 12:45:16 am on Ugh re: comment #32
Probably mine too. No one was allowed to use nicknames with us. My parents would yell at our friends if they called us anything but our full name. :-)
Kind of the opposite with me. An uncle came up with a nickname for me one day and never stopped using it. It never struck me as funny or witty; just cruelly humiliating.
firecove, 25, F, straight, hermit Sun Mar 7, 2010 12:38:05 am on Ugh re: comment #29
For a while I was forced to accept "Johnny" as a nickname from my Internet friends, because I had included it in my screen name. I was okay with that. But when someone used it in real life, or one of my net-friends used it over the phone, I was deeply bothered.
I pretty much despise having any "y" sound added to the end of a name. Matty, Johnny, Jessy, etc. just annoys me.
sweeneyjohn, -97990, M, straight, hermit Sun Mar 7, 2010 12:34:10 am on Ugh re: comment #28
I don't mind certain nicknames. For example, people are allowed to call me Jess, but i prefer Jessica. I hate the name Jessi and no one is allowed to call me that. I also have the nicknames "J" and "J-Biz" from my friends and I don't mind those. I suppose as long as you don't add a "my" in front of it, I'm fine with it.
For a while I was forced to accept "Johnny" as a nickname from my Internet friends, because I had included it in my screen name. I was okay with that. But when someone used it in real life, or one of my net-friends used it over the phone, I was deeply bothered.
firecove, 25, F, straight, hermit Sun Mar 7, 2010 12:20:27 am on Ugh re: comment #26
I dislike pet names or nick names of any sort. I find them degrading.
I don't mind certain nicknames. For example, people are allowed to call me Jess, but i prefer Jessica. I hate the name Jessi and no one is allowed to call me that. I also have the nicknames "J" and "J-Biz" from my friends and I don't mind those. I suppose as long as you don't add a "my" in front of it, I'm fine with it.
purgajew, 3994, TFPre, don't know, hermit Sun Mar 7, 2010 12:11:42 am on Ugh re: comment #19
I don't find it annoying. I'm currently being called "my Sweet-Sweets." It's kind of cute and endearing. Better than the last bf's "Pumpkin Tits." Where I don't even know... how... that one started. I think he was just trying to find the worst nickname ever because I had called him some kickass nickname that I can't remember at the moment.
I think you forgot you were calling him grape-fruit balls
erdos0, 34, M, straight, single Sat Mar 6, 2010 11:57:20 pm on :-) re: comment #6
I don't like that unless I like the guy. Even then, I have to REALLY like the guy. That was the worse part of the military ball, which incidentally was the last time I have danced. I vowed then I would never dance again unless I was like engaged to the guy or something. I don't like it when men grope me.
firecove, 25, F, straight, hermit Sat Mar 6, 2010 11:52:56 pm on :-) re: comment #5
The only benefit is getting into the personal space.
I don't like that unless I like the guy. Even then, I have to REALLY like the guy. That was the worse part of the military ball, which incidentally was the last time I have danced. I vowed then I would never dance again unless I was like engaged to the guy or something. I don't like it when men grope me.
erdos0, 34, M, straight, single Sat Mar 6, 2010 11:43:55 pm on :-) re: comment #4
Hm, I dunno. I only like certain types of dance, and I hate dancing with men now. They get in my personal space. This is fun dance because it's just exercise. No one is in my personal space.
The only benefit is getting into the personal space.
firecove, 25, F, straight, hermit Sat Mar 6, 2010 11:42:00 pm on :-) re: comment #3
The joy of doing it and watching other people do it.
Hm, I dunno. I only like certain types of dance, and I hate dancing with men now. They get in my personal space. This is fun dance because it's just exercise. No one is in my personal space.